Sunday Confessions: 2-4-24
"I’m actually happy that everything fell apart. I feel like the world is my oyster now."
I once accidentally texted a coworker something mean about her. While I didn’t largely dislike this coworker by any stretch of the imagination, I found myself in a raw moment where I had to get something off my chest to another coworker. Upon realizing that I sent the text to the wrong person, I did something bold.
I walked up to her, asked to see her unlocked phone, and I deleted the message before she could see it. Rather than explain myself, I simply handed the phone back in hopes that she wouldn’t question the bizarre nature of the situation at-hand.
Somehow, it worked. But I’ve felt guilt about it ever since. I guess that’s my confession this week.
Now for this week’s anonymous confessions.
My boyfriend’s new haircut is giving me major ick.
Lied about graduating college for years, but secretly finished school during the lie.
Resigned without having the shadow of a backup job after 2 months of paid leave. Not even in a rush of going back to any job at all tbh.
I hope my boyfriend proposes this year.
I think I may have hooked up with my long-term partner’s friend on Thanksgiving Eve and it’s been eating away at me ever since.
My manager is getting fired this week and no one else on the team knows, the only reason I know is because I’ve been interviewing to be her replacement for the past month.
I hate my clients but love the money.
My guy best friend of over a decade got engaged and posted their engagement photos. I’m feeling some type of way, but it’s too late now.
I’m worried that I’m developing a crush on my boss. He’s everything I’m against in life, born with a silver spoon in his mouth and an ego to match. Absolutely disgusted with myself.
Secretly planning a ski trip with my bros, my gf is going to be pissed she isn’t invited.
Worry every day that living at home at 30 is going to keep me a single loser forever.
Last night hooked up with the guy I had blocked last weekend.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over three years. And I love our life together. But I’m not in love with him. I don’t think I ever have been. I am constantly debating on whether I stay in this or if this is the definition of settling.
I texted a man that ghosted me 2 years ago asking him out to a drink.
Supported two of my best friends equally who were married, during their divorce. Now both resent me for supporting the other and I’ve lost them both.
My chiropractor was visibly excited to see me at my last appointment… if you know what I mean… now I’m equally as excited for my next appointment.
Anytime my friend group gets together these days, me and one of the guys find ways to sneak off and fool around. He’s married and I’m in a long term relationship. We only do it when the whole group is together. Really playing with fire but I can’t stop.
I’m actually happy that everything fell apart. I feel like the world is my oyster now.
I secretly wish my coworker would get a mild case of Covid (mild I said!) so I could have a nice quiet week in the office with my own thoughts.
I like to drink alcohol on a Sunday night does it make me an alcoholic? I drink within reason obviously as I need to get up for work, but it’s the only thing that takes away the pain of the week ahead.
Me and my work bestie kissed while out for drinks. In the moment, I confessed to liking him. However, when talking about what happened the following week, he claimed that he didn’t kiss me and that “I can do better than him.”
I let my sister in law borrow my new favorite necklace for a Mardi Gras ball and I’m pissed that she looked better than me.
I asked my boss to leave his wife for me. He said no.
Dating a lovely man, but he’s awful in bed. I miss good sex.
Called my sister a “materialistic cunt” while in a drunken rage.
Shrimp cocktail, done well, is always better than caviar.
Sometimes I have to travel on a Sunday for work if I need to be in a Monday morning meeting. Whenever I have to do this I make sure to treat myself to a really nice meal on my company card.
I am the only friend in my group of friends who isn’t pregnant and doesn’t have any kids. It’s very lonely.
My boyfriend is lying about his sobriety and he doesn’t know I know.
I have no clue how to tell my friends I have over 10k in credit card debt and need to dial back spending dramatically for the foreseeable future until I get a handle on things. And somehow I owe about 2k in taxes for 2023.
I got pregnant by my best friend, while he had a girlfriend. I haven’t told anyone the baby is his.
Mentally unprepared for my 2nd week of being unemployed. Filed for Cobra last week, sending all the equipment back tomorrow and debating filing for unemployment. At least I have therapy this week.
I’m hooking up with someone 30 yrs older than me. Best sex of my life.
Hope everyone’s Monday is better than their Sunday. And remember, if we’re all scared collectively, we’re less scared individually.